"that was why I asked you the question . Your genitalia is not what makes you a man. Now isn't it possible for someone to be a man without that genitalia?"

Answer : No Male is sex; man is gender, but the defintion of a man is a adult male human

Sperm bearing categorizes an individual as male. Gender is assigned at birth based on genitalia by custom. The vast majority of births are not inter-"sex"; traditionally a choice of one or the other is made. In the vast majority of births , genitalia corresponds to gamete cells.

Once put in one gender or the other, an individual grows up and learns their gender roles . Some individuals choose to become third gender such as transvestite . Homosexual is actually a third gender . Many individuals become third gender in this way.